Good Man/Woman Myth

Myth, there is no such thing as a good woman/man. You may possess qualities someone may want but that don't make you a good man/woman in general, 

Ex: how can you tell me you're a good woman for me & don't know what I need? You can be a freak & cook like billions of other women, what makes you so special? If you:

Antagonize me, disqualified.
Too big, disqualified.
Unhealthy eating habits, disqualified.
Wear too much makeup, disqualified.
Have hygiene issues, disqualified.
Act like you're too good to pursue or call me, disqualified.
Smoke or have a drinking problem, disqualified.
Think your degree equals intelligence, disqualified.
Can't cook, disqualified.
Dress, inappropriately disqualified.
Uncooperative, DisMUTHAFUCKINqualified. 5/7/14

Women; You don't have to be Submissive if you don't want to be

Posted by Matthew R. Johnson · April 9 · Edited

I find it funny how women have an issue with being submissive, something that is suppose to be apart of being a woman. They fight against it, they fight against that nature. I say this, women, you are entitled to what you want, if you can get it.

If you don't want to be submissive than you don't have to be, if you can get and keep a man without being submissive then go right on ahead, you're entitled to what you want, but so am I.

I do want to deal with submissive women, Only. That means however many women on this entire planet there is, that do not want to be submissive towards their men, I am not compatible with all non-submissive women. Because women that aren't submissive aren't what I want, they don't turn me on. I like women that are feminine, I like women who embrace femininity, the art of being submissive. That's the thing, that makes women mad that you want something, they think they're the only one's entitled to want something. If you're not submissive then it's bye bye & go not be submissive somewhere else, with someone else.

And then, comes the string of shaming because I don't want to deal with non-submissive women, that saying women always say when they're being rejected.

“You could be missing out on someone special” OR “You're missing out on a good thing”, (that one is my favorite). It's like; bitch! I can never miss out on something I never had, & since you have never been good to me, I can never miss you. And I'm not afraid to lose a woman.

But- If not being submissive is working for you, then don't do it, it's not what you want, but if it is not working out for you, you may have to rethink your stance on it.
-SSM

Stand your ground when it comes to your principles

Posted by Matthew R. Johnson · April 5

My homie was talking to a woman that told him how she got down, what she required from men, respect, they had to pick her up, take her out, pay for the date for the both of them, & some other things involving how she got down. My homie told her he wasn't doing it, & since he wasn't doing it, they weren't compatible, so he told her goodbye. Shawty started stuttering saying: “hold on, we don't have to dismiss each other so soon”, & she with his program.

It's gotta be your way or the highway, there is no option for anything else, either way you're going to have you way. If she followed his lead, & what he wanted, or him firing her ass on the spot.

Another example of standing your ground when it comes to your principles is respect. My homie had a situation with his mom, apparently his father is the simp in his family, so he let his wife (my homies mother) talk to him any kind of way, She tries to do it the same way with her sons, since their father never checked his wife, she's just reckless with her lack of respect for men. My homie recently got into with his mom & he checked her, remember, I said you have to be respected at all times as a man, putting up with disrespect from anybody is a no no. It doesn't matter if it's your mom or your sister, other female relatives, your wife, girlfriend, random bitch on the streets, NOBODY should disrespect you. Most folks especially simp ass dudes will make excuses for brawds, “Well, that's your mother”, she's his mother, but at the same time she's still just a woman, being a mother is not a separate gender, they're still women, moms do no get a pass, but I digress. So when my homie gets into it with his mother & his he let her know that she's not going to talk to him any kind of way, & he'll cut her off if she does & never speaks to her again, if she can't understand that, & start showing him proper respect, then he'll cease communicating with her, whenever she called he kept conversations real short so that she got the message that her son is really not playing when it comes to respect & her treating with it, she let him know she'll get with the program & they made peace, meanwhile his pops should be ashamed of himself, that whole situation could have been avoided if he did that long ago.

Most motherfuckers give women & their emotions a pass, thinking it's just emotions, no, it's not, it's disrespectful & it must be checked, it's a clear signal that most cats don't pay attention to. How does it take his son to straighten out his wife, my homie stood his ground so it doesn't matter if it's a woman he's seeing or his own mother, you have principles you stand by them. My homie's pops tried to give him advice dealing with women but my homie just ignores him, he'll even leave if he tries to give him advice, (that's where the post taking advice from a simp is like shooting yourself in the foot comes from). His own advice doesn't even work for him.

My last example of standing on your principles, involves a life situation, as standing on your principles doesn't just work when it comes to dealing with women.

My homie moved to another state & hired a moving company to do the moving, they agreed on a price, & moved his things, things got weird & they attempted to get more money out of him to deliver his things, he told them he wasn't paying them anymore money, & they were going to deliver his furniture at the price they agreed on, when they realized he wasn't paying, & he was going to sue (the company has a history of bad services), they delivered his furniture.

You cannot give people an opportunity to disrespect you, they have to respect you, or you're not going to fuck with them, period. -SSM

Don Jon

Posted by Matthew R. Johnson · March 28

I'm watching this movie Don Jon which is supposed to be Don Juan, a ladies man, white folks assumption of what a “player” is.

With movies of guys being players, big stud lady lovers, know this, the lead male character will always be a simp, he might not appear that way at first to the naked eye, but trust me, all it takes is a brawd & these dudes true simp colors will show.

Gordon-Levitt plays Jon Martello, a modern day Don Juan, his friends call him Don Jon due to his ability to pull different women.

The same thing happens in every movie (where white folks try to direct a movie on their assumption of what a player is), the guy meets a woman more attractive then the women he's pulled before, the 10 (based of of looks & attitude alone), & it's love at first sight, He dances with her, even attempts to make out with her, she heads home, he realizes he cannot pull her on the first night, & so her pursues (stalks) her,

He finds her by asking around, finding her profile photo on facebook & boom, he takes her out to eat,

To summarize shawty, it's Scarlett Johansson, so you already know she's fine, but, she also has a bossy attitude, he wants to fuck her badly & thus she changes his life around knowing he wants to smash. Oh, I forgot to mention Don is a porn addict, he has sex with various women, but his addiction to porn has led to him not enjoying sex as much as he enjoys jerking off. I digress. So Scarlett Johansson's character (Barbara Sugarman), kinda forcing him to get his shit together in order to fuck with her, it doesn't make her a bad woman, but it is one sided as fuck, she makes him go back to school to take a class so he can make a 6 figure salary, (she herself works in the corporate world, wearing a suit & stuff). She wants to meet his family, she wants to meet his friends, she wants him to meet her family & friends, she doesn't sound like a bad catch, does she? At one point she told him he was a winner. He does all that she asks of him & then when they finally fuck, you guessed it, he's still addicted to jerking off to porn. She catches him in the act, he plays it off like his friends sent it him as an email, a joke (breaking her rule of not lying to her), & they move forward about the situation, even though she acted as if she thought it was sick & he had cheated on her. I forgot to also mention that the reason he's so addicted to jerking off to porn, is that they do what he feels is real sex, all the women he fucks with are lame in the sack according to him, they don't give head unless given head, & once they've gotten theirs off, they're in a hurry to do him so it's not completely reciprocated the same way. (Normal average guy problems) but, I digress.

I'll summarize the movie as this (cause you all should see it for yourselves)-

100% of the problems men have dealing with women, would be eliminated if they started acting like they had a big set of balls. Half of your problems stem from lack of valuing yourself, high self-esteem, PRIDE!
The other half is rejection, fear of losing a really attractive woman because you never compromised the man. Bitches come a dime a dozen, shit, dimes come a dime a dozen. How do you meet dimes? By leaving your house, walking up to one, & starting a conversation with her, that's how!

If you started not caring about losing bitches, & a lot more about self respect & BEING RESPECTED, you'd go a lot further in life, & bitches would get their act together, & by together I mean act right & stop trying to tell men what to do. Scarlett Johansson is a fine brawd. Here's the thing about beautiful women. Yes you're the most beautiful I've ever seen, BUT, you're the most beautiful woman I've seen SO FAR, & that doesn't mean I will act any less of a man because you're really attractive. I'll always find women more attractive, the thing is, finding women that have master femininity & not trying to master masculinity. To sum it all up, I need a lady in the streets & a freak in the sheets. -SSM

What about White on White Crime?

Posted by Matthew R. Johnson · March 24

Black folks love to defend white folks whenever you bring up the shit white folks do to blacks, like the video to coon training is coming says;

“What about black on black crime? What about black people? All white peoples ain't bad. Black people, we're our own worse enemy. Black people, we kill ourselves, why get mad when white folks do it? We kill ourselves more than any other race”

You could flip that same argument; What about white on white crime? What about white folks? All black people ain't bad. White people kill themselves more than any other race.


If you knew your history, you'd know that white folks have killed white folks at higher rates than any other race on the planet.


Hitler, he was a white, he killed a lot of white people, MILLIONS of white folks.

Joseph Stalin, he's killed way more white folks than Hitler has, but when white & black folk bring on black on black murders, they leave that part out.

Damn near Every fucking war in modern history, involved white on white murder.
The Civil war, World war, World war II, The Revolutionary war, War of 1812.

you could bring up that they were English...or French, they were still white.

When it comes to the black on blacks killing themselves more than any other race, nobody has killed more Africans than Leopold II. & HE was a King. He was the last genocide of the late 1800's.

Belgian Congo | Colonial Genocides | Genocide Studies Program | Yale University
http://www.yale.edu/gsp/colonial/belgian_congo/

The first genocide of the 1900's was the Herero and Namaqua Genocide - Herero Genocide Nama Genocide

Herero and Namaqua Genocide - Herero Genocide Nama Genocide
http://www.ezakwantu.com/Gallery%20Herero%20and%20Namaqua%20Genocide.htm


The First Genocide of the 20th Century and its Postcolonial Afterlives: Germany and the Namibian Ovaherero
http://quod.lib.umich.edu/j/jii/4750978.0012.201/--first-genocide-of-the-20th-century-and-its-postcolonial?rgn=main%3Bview%3Dfulltext



-SSM