My homie was
talking to a woman that told him how she got down, what she required
from men, respect, they had to pick her up, take her out, pay for the
date for the both of them, & some other things involving how she
got down. My homie told her he wasn't doing it, & since he wasn't
doing it, they weren't compatible, so he told her goodbye. Shawty
started stuttering saying: “hold on, we don't have to dismiss each
other so soon”, & she with his program.
It's gotta be
your way or the highway, there is no option for anything else, either
way you're going to have you way. If she followed his lead, &
what he wanted, or him firing her ass on the spot.
Another
example of standing your ground when it comes to your principles is
respect. My homie had a situation with his mom, apparently his father
is the simp in his family, so he let his wife (my homies mother) talk
to him any kind of way, She tries to do it the same way with her
sons, since their father never checked his wife, she's just reckless
with her lack of respect for men. My homie recently got into with his
mom & he checked her, remember, I said you have to be respected
at all times as a man, putting up with disrespect from anybody is a
no no. It doesn't matter if it's your mom or your sister, other
female relatives, your wife, girlfriend, random bitch on the streets,
NOBODY should disrespect you. Most folks especially simp ass dudes
will make excuses for brawds, “Well, that's your mother”, she's
his mother, but at the same time she's still just a woman, being a
mother is not a separate gender, they're still women, moms do no get
a pass, but I digress. So when my homie gets into it with his mother
& his he let her know that she's not going to talk to him any
kind of way, & he'll cut her off if she does & never speaks
to her again, if she can't understand that, & start showing him
proper respect, then he'll cease communicating with her, whenever she
called he kept conversations real short so that she got the message
that her son is really not playing when it comes to respect & her
treating with it, she let him know she'll get with the program &
they made peace, meanwhile his pops should be ashamed of himself,
that whole situation could have been avoided if he did that long ago.
Most motherfuckers give women & their emotions a pass,
thinking it's just emotions, no, it's not, it's disrespectful &
it must be checked, it's a clear signal that most cats don't pay
attention to. How does it take his son to straighten out his wife, my
homie stood his ground so it doesn't matter if it's a woman he's
seeing or his own mother, you have principles you stand by them. My
homie's pops tried to give him advice dealing with women but my homie
just ignores him, he'll even leave if he tries to give him advice,
(that's where the post taking advice from a simp is like shooting
yourself in the foot comes from). His own advice doesn't even work
for him.
My last example of standing on your principles,
involves a life situation, as standing on your principles doesn't
just work when it comes to dealing with women.
My homie moved
to another state & hired a moving company to do the moving, they
agreed on a price, & moved his things, things got weird &
they attempted to get more money out of him to deliver his things, he
told them he wasn't paying them anymore money, & they were going
to deliver his furniture at the price they agreed on, when they
realized he wasn't paying, & he was going to sue (the company has
a history of bad services), they delivered his furniture.
You
cannot give people an opportunity to disrespect you, they have to
respect you, or you're not going to fuck with them, period. -SSM