A Man must be a Man at all Cost

A man must be a man at all cost, masculinity should be his aura. A man must stand on his own two feet, he must have a set of rules he follows that keep him in line, he has to have a code that he adheres to.

He must have integrity, honor, valor. He must be a man. Whether you believe him to be bad or good will not take away the fact that he is a man because that's how he holds himself. There must be something that he just won't stand for.

My set of principles that I stand on without a shadow of a doubt, is I will not stand for mistreatment of children or abuse of children. I could give a damn about women getting their asses beat by another man. They make the choice of being with him, if I ever saw or heard a woman getting her ass beat I wouldn't do shit but go on about my life, I'm not no gotdamn superhero. I'm not Superman. & I'm not saying abusing women or beating them up is ok, but Women have the power to leave & don't.

But a child. That's different. That's the only reason I'd step in to defend someone is if it were a child. Children cannot defend themselves & they don't have the power to leave. If I ever saw somebody hitting a child like they were an adult I'd whip their ass until they apologized begging for mercy & then I'd make them apologize to their kid. If you're going to hit your kid, it better be out of my sight.

Child abuse pisses me off, mistreating children pisses me off. If I ever heard someone beating on a child I'd call the cops on them as well. We're not talking ass whoopings as in discipline, that's different. But straight up beating on a child like they are adults mane I won't stand for that shit. -SSM 11/25/13

Red Flag

There's a red flag to be raised as to why a single mom would wonder why she's single & why men are't approaching her. Single moms only wonder why they are single & don't get approached by single men with NO CHILDREN. Not men with kids.

Do you see posts up on Facebook trying to shame single father's into dating a woman with kids? No! I didn't think so. The post shame men without kids.

Remember it said something like; "takes a strong man to accept someone else's child & step up to the plate another man left on the table."

That message isn't directed at single father's. It's directed at ALL OF YOU. Those of you WITHOUT any children. Notice it didn't say anything about single mother's getting with single father's & making that so called "broken family" whole again.

Single mother's already have an already made family. They seem so against dating someone else with children. & dating someone who has them. If you won't date single father's why should a man without children date you? Because you're unique like the other million and so on baby momma's.

I saw in a group a brawd said it was so hard to find a man without children & this bitch had kids. Hard to find is right. Cause they are not looking to play save a hoe. Not to mention that bullshit about not having to help out or get involved. What if you "fall in love" with the nigga & marry him, by law their his kids. If you are in a relationship & living together they are his kids. You might have the night talk to your kids one day. The kids might see him coming & going. They will cross paths.
Are you really going to get with a dude with no kids & never expect not to ask him or him having to do something for your kids?
Fellas if you believe in that malarkey, just cut your dick off, you violated the rule. -SSM 11/18/13

Immature Fantasies

Chicks have the most immature fantasies, little girl shit. Barbie Dreamworld type fantasies as grown women with or without children & have the nerve to call men who play video games or collect figurines, immature boys. They say men need to grow up.

There use to be a time women were planning their weddings ever since they were little girls, now that they are older it's little epic moments to attention whore up shared on social media.

Things like; "Dear future husband, please propose in this location of an isolated field in the spring with your best friend holding a camera taking a photo of the momentous occasion. *giggles*

Some of you have noticed the childish meme's of; "if you love her, show it in front of everybody." "When she's upset, hold her, let her knows you care" (SCSA voice) What?!

"Kiss her in public." & that's just the shit made by brawds with teenager fantasy nonsense. I won't even start on the afrocentric, problack garbage it would be too much to type like; "God made her, she's a queen, not a hoe"

(SCSA voice) What?!

She's a hoe if she was sent to the track & a slut if she's smashing dudes for no fee.

All that unrealistic movies scene bullshit. "If you love me, come to the airport & stop me from getting on an airplane & kiss me infront of everyone after you propse." Little girl nonsense.

"Stand up in front of an entire crowd people & tell me you love me with a megaphone.

If there is a such thing as too much pda that's it. -SSM 11/18/13

Two Types Of Feminist

There are two types of feminist.

The first ones are like "we share equal rights and we should help and support women who have been abused."

Then there are others who are like "WOMEN SHOULD RULE THE WORLD AND MEN SHALL BE OUR SLAVES! ANY THING THAT MEN SAY IS SEXIST AND THEY SHOULD BE PUNISHED !" 11/18/13

Are you the 1st or 2nd Round Draft Pick?

Females make me laugh at the shit they pull that they are use to pulling on weak ass dudes.

Had an old flame send me a text message. Picture text message. But I didn't have her number anymore cause I delete bitches numbers when we not doing shit together anymore or they aren't benefiting me. So I asked who was it? As a response.

I delete bitches numbers for another reason for them thinking I'm a back up nigga whenever their relationships end with the main or other niggas.

I'm not anybody's back up dick or go to nigga, I'm the number 1 draft pick. & if you hit me up like I'm a second rate dude I'ma deflate your ego by asking who you are. Cause I'm a saved number in your phone but you are not in mine & I forgot about you.

& you know a bitches pride is hurt when she don't even tell you who she is but will pretend she didn't mean to hit you up. That just makes it worse cause like I said. Why do you still have my number?

& if she does tell me who she is I will treat her like we just met. Ain't no starting where we left off, we are starting over. & you got to work harder than the last time -SSM 11/17/13