The other day my
homie was telling about story about a guy who was married and his
wife didn’t appreciate what he did for her, despite bending over
backwards for her.
He tried being more
romantic, public displays of affection, taking her out more, spending
more money, touching her, etc, etc, it only ended up with her looking
at him with disgust when he touched her.
My homie said the
same thing I was thinking, that he should have just divorced her,
cause there was no way I stay in a relationship with a miserable
bitch. And that is what she was.
In this day in age,
despite the fact that women complain about being unappreciated in a
relationship, guys tend to be unappreciated as well, and they stick
around for it as well, just as much as women do. It just so happens
women make the most noise, and with the manginas and simps, the
stories kinda take a backdoor to women and their outcry.
I notice all of
these stories coming out about men going unappreciated and since I
ran SSM & now run the Anti-Simp, I hear them all the time.
I
always wondered why the men didn't leave, cause it's not just love,
as I stated earlier, my homie said the same thing I did, I'd leave
that miserable brawd, so why can't other men do it? Why can't they
leave a brawd like that? You have to know that staying with a woman
like that is draining to your life energy, your spiritual energy, so
why stick around?
It's
because they don't have anything left, it's easy for me to just go
pull another brawd, I tend to lose feelings as quickly as I caught
them, cause I'm a thoroughbred, I can't be in a relationship with
someone draining my energy, draining my life-force. I'm awesome, I
can't be in a relationship with someone who doesn't feel and think
the same way about me.
Black
men tend to bend over backwards for black women, with the tricking
and simping, they don't even stop there, they tend to go extra, but
black women want men to do more than just bend over backwards for
them, they want more than that extra mile, they want them to bend
over backwards far beyond what they already do. They want them to be
doormats, they want them to put up with abuse, and they want them to
stay and take that shit. Men who leave are why some of them become
super bitter. They want a thoroughbred as well and tend to want him
to end up the same way as the men they've dated, but thoroughbred dip
out way quicker then the simps she's use to will. It's funny, women
say they want a standup guy. but, are always trying to make him side
down. They are going to have to deal with the fact that, not all
women can get a thoroughbred. Some women settle, they know they
settle, despite what you hear everyday about black men, they stay
with black women despite how miserable black women are, and how they
make black men feel.
The men
stick around because they've past the threshold, they've gone beyond
just a simp, they've become super simps, they don't have any self
respect left, that shit is gone, they can't do any better than the
brawd they are putting up with. They make even have the look that can
pull a lot of women, but they don't want to start over, they don't
have the self-esteem to go on, and so they stay and contiue to deal.
Women
pass a threshold as well, they become so miserable there is no way
back, they've gone beyond being a bitch, they've gone to a place in
their mind and heart and become super bitch, super wack, super lame,
nobody in their right mind would be with her, accept for the sucker
she has, and those that do leave her and her misery, she'll be pissed
off at all men til the day they close this bitch's casket.
As I
told my homie, it's the women, it has got to be the women, because
black men have no issues tricking off money on women, and pandering,
becoming a complete simp, but they want their women to be kind, and
appreciate what they do, and they can't seem to get that from black
women, at least not American black women, they usually go overseas
(or find a white woman).
I know
many of you guys reading this saw the documentary about Brazil, and
all of the black men who traveled there just to get a piece of mind.
They didn't even care about saving up money just to blow it all over
there (despite the women in the documentary saying they were being
taken advantage of), they didn't care, they were happy as fuck. Now
I'm not cosigning trickin, never have never will, but when an
abundance of men seek women either outside their race or outside this
country, it's the women. It's not all of them, but, you know there is
too many. -SSM