The Good Sex Post

It seems like there's a lot of pressure placed on men to perform really well during sex, as if when women don't have an orgasm, it's a man's fault, it's not. Good sex requires communication between all parties involved, it's your own fault if you do not bust a nut.

Too long has society placed the burden of women orgasming on the shoulders of men and called men selfish lovers if women do not cum, and it's not right, it's not your responsibility to make a woman cum, it's hers.

Do you know the great thing about porn? It's great to enjoy. You can watch it for entertainment or pleasure you can even watch it for educational purposes. If you watch it for entertainment & educational purposes, you'll learn that men & women of all shapes & sizes have been paired up, mixed & match & have had multiple orgasms with each other. I hope when I say all shapes and sizes, the reader doesn't need me to explain.

Women for far too long have just laid there in the bed & relied on penetration to do all of the work & then tried to call it "good pussy", bitch your sex is wack. You can't give head & your communication skills suck, you just lay there & that is why the sex between you & your partner sucks. You're a team, equals, just like you're the same when ya'll lay down together & when you get up, you suffer the L when you get up & the experience wasn't enjoyable for you & I'm pretty certain your partner feels the same way. When you say his sex is wack, bitch you're saying your sex is wack. Good sex is fun, you laugh & grow, experiment within reason.

Bitches don't communicate what they want during sex, they certainly don't ask their partners either. You make your partner too nervous to perform & that is why they may ejaculate too soon.

Real sex isn't porn, but what one can learn from pornos is that partners communicate with each other & they have some sort of connection that makes it easier to be around one another, you don't see it because when the film starts, they just cut to the scenes & then they start getting down, in real life those porn stars have known they would work with each other in advance, you can see chemistry in some films, they've done the prep work (At least the professional actors have done their prep work).

Bottom line, good sex requires good communication between partners & a good connection, you need to feel a little something, even folks who just fuck have some sort of connection. Size does not matter, none of that shit people place value on matters. The only thing that matters is that you & your partner work together to have a fun experience & if it can't happen, kick that bitch out & tell her that her sex is wack. Either she'll break down, get some act right & cooperate better next time, making more of an effort to participate, or she'll continue to suck & you can find a better bitch. One thing you don't do is have sex with a brawd with wack sex. -SSM