Black Women & Their Lack of Self-Love

My last article talked about life not being fair and black women needing to get over it. Black women tend to use their troubled past from their youth to justify being assholes towards black men, at one point black men had sympathy for them, but you can only take so much before enough is enough when it comes to their attitudes towards us.

Their biggest issues are not getting over their past, be it from a childhood experience, teen or bad choices as an adult, another is accountability. This article is about their lack of self-love and their low self-esteem.

Some black women claim to love themselves but you usually see them putting others down (like black men) or claim feminism, just to make themselves feel better, that's not real self-love, it's false bravado.

They always blame men for the reason they feel the way they do about themselves when love of self is a personal responsibility and your own demons when you don't.

I can't help but think of Biggie Smalls, he acknowledged that he was fat and ugly in his song, "One More Chance". He rapped: 

"Heart throb never black and ugly as ever"

He also had a lazy eye and he didn't have a lot of money. He pulled women like Lil Kim, Charlie Baltimore & Faith Evans, funny how those same women that fucked with him, his self-esteem did not rub off on them and they had work done to them. Biggie pulled Kim when he was just starting out, so he didn't have a lot of paper, before all of the work she had done, Lil Kim was fine, same for Faith Evans. Usually the more attractive the woman, the more insecurities she has.

Lil Kim blamed her lack of self-love on black men, as did Azealia Banks. Though Azealia has been wack as hell since she was a brat, and she looks like a raggedy a wannabe bed wench, he wackness just kinda seeps through her pores. Kim, on the other hand, used to be fine. Many black women blame their lack of self-esteem and self-love on black men, they make excuses for why they hate themselves. 


You know what is funny, you often see unappealing women who overvalue themselves. Having self-confidence is one thing, but to overdue it is another. Physically unappealing women have a lot of self-confidence and attractive women have none. Physically unattractive women think that everybody wants them while attractive women have issues with their appearance. Sometimes you'll see attractive women with self-confidence, but they aren't humble. It's ok to think highly of yourself, but you must also be humble as well. 

Lack of self-love is just something else black women are going to have to get over if they want to get with black men.

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