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Monday, May 23, 2016

The Good Sex Post

It seems like there's a lot of pressure placed on men to perform really well during sex, as if when women don't have an orgasm, it's a man's fault, it's not. Good sex requires communication between all parties involved, it's your own fault if you do not bust a nut.

Too long has society placed the burden of women orgasming on the shoulders of men and called men selfish lovers if women do not cum, and it's not right, it's not your responsibility to make a woman cum, it's hers.

Do you know the great thing about porn? It's great to enjoy. You can watch it for entertainment or pleasure you can even watch it for educational purposes. If you watch it for entertainment & educational purposes, you'll learn that men & women of all shapes & sizes have been paired up, mixed & match & have had multiple orgasms with each other. I hope when I say all shapes and sizes, the reader doesn't need me to explain.

Women for far too long have just laid there in the bed & relied on penetration to do all of the work & then tried to call it "good pussy", bitch your sex is wack. You can't give head & your communication skills suck, you just lay there & that is why the sex between you & your partner sucks. You're a team, equals, just like you're the same when ya'll lay down together & when you get up, you suffer the L when you get up & the experience wasn't enjoyable for you & I'm pretty certain your partner feels the same way. When you say his sex is wack, bitch you're saying your sex is wack. Good sex is fun, you laugh & grow, experiment within reason.

Bitches don't communicate what they want during sex, they certainly don't ask their partners either. You make your partner too nervous to perform & that is why they may ejaculate too soon.

Real sex isn't porn, but what one can learn from pornos is that partners communicate with each other & they have some sort of connection that makes it easier to be around one another, you don't see it because when the film starts, they just cut to the scenes & then they start getting down, in real life those porn stars have known they would work with each other in advance, you can see chemistry in some films, they've done the prep work (At least the professional actors have done their prep work).

Bottom line, good sex requires good communication between partners & a good connection, you need to feel a little something, even folks who just fuck have some sort of connection. Size does not matter, none of that shit people place value on matters. The only thing that matters is that you & your partner work together to have a fun experience & if it can't happen, kick that bitch out & tell her that her sex is wack. Either she'll break down, get some act right & cooperate better next time, making more of an effort to participate, or she'll continue to suck & you can find a better bitch. One thing you don't do is have sex with a brawd with wack sex. -SSM

Friday, May 13, 2016

Pedophiles Among Black Women & Colorism

It's kinda funny how weeks ago, I said that black women try to blame black men for their problems and try to blame their self-hate and lack of self-love on us, I also said that women say way worse things to each other yet they blame men for why they are the way they are.

Well, a few days ago Azealia Banks got into it with a 14-year-old little girl named Skai Jackson. Azealia has insecurities, she has issues with her body and it was just ironic that she attacked a little girl and went after her physical features, the same physical features she's insecure about. She told her she needed work, she told this to a 14-year-old girl, if this were a black man she would've called him a pedophile for looking a 14-year-old child this way, in fact, I think we should look at her in the same manner, it's not acceptable. Young black girls are preyed on by women like her, and black people should take notice. Banks is only 10 years older than Skai Jackson, she's a grown ass woman even though she herself doesn't physically look the part.

Azealia Banks also referred to Skai Jackson as a black bitch and made several jabs about her complexion, stating that she shouldn't get comfortable in her position because they (Disney) doesn't favor black girls of her shade. There are a lot of dark skin black women with issues with their complexion and they play the colorism card. They often show dislike of girls of lighter complexions and hate when men only pursue them because of a fetish. They play the colorism card but love dissing someone else because of their complexion, that's why people don't care about their grips of colorism.

That whole era where light skin black men were in style and then dark skin black men were in style, that was black women, black men didn't trip about it, they just kept on campaigning. Dark skin black women need to get over it.

Wednesday, May 11, 2016

Black Women & Their Lack of Self-Love

My last article talked about life not being fair and black women needing to get over it. Black women tend to use their troubled past from their youth to justify being assholes towards black men, at one point black men had sympathy for them, but you can only take so much before enough is enough when it comes to their attitudes towards us.

Their biggest issues are not getting over their past, be it from a childhood experience, teen or bad choices as an adult, another is accountability. This article is about their lack of self-love and their low self-esteem.


Some black women claim to love themselves but you usually see them putting others down (like black men) or claim feminism, just to make themselves feel better, that's not real self-love, it's false bravado.

They always blame men for the reason they feel the way they do about themselves when love of self is a personal responsibility and your own demons when you don't.


I can't help but think of Biggie Smalls, he acknowledged that he was fat and ugly in his song, "One More Chance". He rapped: 

"Heart throb never black and ugly as ever"

He also had a lazy eye and he didn't have a lot of money. He pulled women like Lil Kim, Charlie Baltimore & Faith Evans, funny how those same women that fucked with him, his self-esteem did not rub off on them and they had work done to them. Biggie pulled Kim when he was just starting out, so he didn't have a lot of paper, before all of the work she had done, Lil Kim was fine, same for Faith Evans. Usually the more attractive the woman, the more insecurities she has.

Lil Kim blamed her lack of self-love on black men, as did Azealia Banks. Though Azealia has been wack as hell since she was a brat, and she looks like a raggedy a wannabe bed wench, he wackness just kinda seeps through her pores. Kim, on the other hand, used to be fine. Many black women blame their lack of self-esteem and self-love on black men, they make excuses for why they hate themselves. 


You know what is funny, you often see unappealing women who overvalue themselves. Having self-confidence is one thing, but to overdue it is another. Physically unappealing women have a lot of self-confidence and attractive women have none. Physically unattractive women think that everybody wants them while attractive women have issues with their appearance. Sometimes you'll see attractive women with self-confidence, but they aren't humble. It's ok to think highly of yourself, but you must also be humble as well. 

Lack of self-love is just something else black women are going to have to get over if they want to get with black men.

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Monday, May 9, 2016

Life is Not Fair, Get Over It

As a black man, I'm beyond the point of having sympathy for black women. They have struggles and grips, that's fine, but what I am not cool with is black women using their troubled past as a crutch to be assholes towards black men. You can only have so much sympathy for them until enough is enough and you start to feel like they need to get over it. The world does not revolve around black women, life isn't fair for anybody so the whole mantra that the weight of the world is on their shoulders, they need to let it go and grow the fuck up. the weight of the world is on everybody's shoulders.

Were you raped as a kid? Get over it.
Saw your parents get murdered? Get over it.
Were you molested? Get over it.
Teased by boys, sexually assaulted? Get over it.

Some people think we need to sit and have long drawn out conversations in order to find out what the problem is and maybe some healing can occur, wrong, victims need to get over it, and the root of the problem is they haven't gotten over it. It happened. It's unfortunate that these things happen, I don't condone it or overlook it, but black women really need to get over it so that they can move on with their lives. If they need help they can go get it from a professional.

Black boys endure some of the same issues in the black community, but, they are hung out to dry because they are boys and in our community boys are supposed to be tough while the women who claim to be strong and independent and fierce, they need extra special time because they are girls and delicate flowers. If black boys are expected to get over trauma then so should black women, after all, they wanted to be treated as equals and like equals, they shall be treated.

Sunday, May 1, 2016

Black Women Need to Learn to be Submissive or Keep It Pushing

It's funny how afro-centric niggas like to say that black women would surrender to black men only if we showed them what they wanted to see, as an afro-centric simp, you should already know from your studies that you cannot lead anyone that will not submit to your leadership, and furthermore, I don't have to show women shit, I don't owe them anything and I am not going to sell myself to them, especially since they outnumber men, that's the complete opposite of leadership. if I bend to their will I'd be submitting to THEM, when I require it the other way around. What I do do is give women a sample of how I get down, and then leave the ball in their court.
 
I know there will be some women who will say that they don't owe a man submission, and I'd have to laugh at them because they sound so foolish. Submission is not a light switch you just turn on when you're ready to use it, it supposed to be a part of who you are, IF you're going to call yourselves women, submissiveness is supposed to be a part of your feminine traits, just like masculinity is supposed to be traits that women desire in men or a desirable male traits.
If you're a woman that questions whether you should submit to a guy or not, you have shitty choosing skills.

Women have to give in order to receive, but since they weren't taught to be submissive, they were only taught to take and keep taking, get as much shit out of these men as possible, they don't give after they receive, they just expect men to keep giving as if we're are some fucking personal Santa Claus. If you want a personal Santa, take your asses to the north pole.

I don't give a damn if black women weren't taught to be submissive, and black men neither should you. They better pick it up and learn how to be submissive, otherwise, they should keep it pushing.
 
Black men aren't taught leadership skills, we learn, and just like we learn you can too, there is no excuse. We learn how to be leaders on our own, and women need to learn how to be submissive on their own, and we're not going to teach you how to be women, we are not going to work with you, you need to acquire your lady skills before you get with us.
You don't like any trying ass niggas, and we don' like no trying ass bitches.
I find it funny when women say they were not taught to be submissive but will say that they will submit to a dude if he shows them he can lead. If you were not taught to be submissive by a submissive woman, how the hell can you tell what a leader is? You've never seen a submissive woman before, you sure as hell never seen your mother submit to your father, so how would you know?

If you're a woman and you don't know how to be submissive, then you need to step your game up.