Black women fail to realize that men of other races may treat their women really well, but their women are loyal & submissive, also; they are assets to their men, not all the men & women, but enough to the point where they'd never betray their own race.
If it were so easy for you to get you a man of another race, you'd have already done it. Not every black woman can pull an Eve & snatch them a rich wealthy cat, but some of you will think there is a chance & will try to take it. Like I've said before, you can have whatever you can obtain, if you can't get it, you aren't entitled to it.
"What about black men, they aren't an asset or loyal to black women"
Not the one's you fuck with, no, they aren't. But y'all like to use the small pool of men you fuck with, as an excuse to continue to be lukewarm submissive, half ass alliances, half ass cooperation, & treat every other black man you come across the same, & they ain't having that shit.
They ain't trying to save your toe dipping in the water asses.
You think you're just going to run across men from other races to save your ass, you'll give 100% cooperation to them, because you know it'll be a cold day in hell before you get another one if you fuck up. -SSM
BWE Comment of the century: I will breed out and sleep well'
ReplyDeletePosted on Kola Boof ‘s page by a black woman, if a black man said the same they would be hell to pay.
JaeJae UppityN'HiFalutin Turner
I know I will be making biracial babies and I know I will not be reproducing blackness. We can not under any circumstances pretend that this is NOT what we are doing. However, I have no tribe and no male collective that is loyal to me therefore, I will breed out and sleep well. I adore all babies and black ones are my favs, but I'll damned if I birth them into dysfunction. They don't deserve. It
16 October at 05:07
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Poor Ava tries to speak sense in some these BWE women only to called a Troll.
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“I realize that some bw are still paralyzed and some are not even trying to do much of anything differently, but some bw have made big changes but are still struggling with this at such a primary level! ”
Or maybe some BW are expecting too much. There are not enough rich WM in the world for all the black, white, Asian and other women who want one. In fact, there are not enough working class white men for all the women who want one.The competition is stiff. Millions of women of all races around the world want to marry white men in order to have a better life. This is a fact.
The most popular BWE bloggers are women like you who constantly talk about how well they are living, that they have a white husband who can provide so well for them they don’t have to work. Many of the BW who can’t find a white mate are holding out for the upper class or wealthy white men that BWE bloggers like you have. Because BWE has told them that they have as good a chance or better as white and Asian women of getting a rich WM, they are waiting for a Peter Norton, Roland Betts or Prince Maximilian. At the very least, they want a guy who earns six figures, so they don’t have to work. After all, they deserve to live well simply because they are BW and all rich white men prefer BW. Pictures of black women married to wealthy WM cause BWE followers to further retreat into their fantasy world of becoming a white man’s princess.
Only about 4% of the people in this country earn more than $250,000 a year and many of them are women. A woman is lucky to find a man of ANY age who is earning $70,000 to $100,000 per year. Twenty-five percent of white women earn more than their husbands. There are fewer marriageable WM than WW and the ratio is worse when you include the non-white women who want WM. It is pretty arrogant of BW to think that they will displace ALL white and non-black women to get all the rich WM. And even if BW got all the rich WM, there still would be many BW without a rich WM.
All Asian women married to white men are not “living well”. Again BWE women like to focus on the few Asian women (Julie Chen, Wendy Deng etc) who are married to famous wealthy WM and ignore the overwhelming majority of Asian women who are married to middle class WM and who have to work to help support their families.
I live in an upper middle class white neighborhood (I am a BW) and none of the WW I know would get huge cash settlements or thousands of dollars per month in child support if their marriages ended. The money simply isn’t there. The ones who were stay-at-home moms went back to work as soon as their children entered school. Some place their children in day care a few hours per day or week so they can work part time because they don’t want to be absent from the work force for many years.
So maybe BWE bloggers should portray a more realistic picture of the dating world and the type of men who are available. 99% of BW will have to settle for an ordinary middle class guy of any race. Some will get the wealthy bankers and millionaires and a few will get princes, aristocrats or billionaires. Also, since there are more women than quality men, many BW will never find a quality mate. Every aspiring athlete cannot make it to the Olympics and every athlete who makes it to the Olympics cannot bring home a medal. We should stop assuming that BW who have not found a “quality” WM is doing something wrong.
http://neecysnest.wordpress.com/2014/12/29/hypergamy-black-women/
ReplyDeleteThis sums up Black Women Empowerment (BWE), Kola Boof teaching them well comments from Neecy, from Neecy’Nest who quickly went back and edited the post, when realizing the magnitude of what she was saying not before Google cached it though.
‘BLACK WOMEN BEING COLORISTS
*looking around* Hmph! Your secret is safe with me!
………………..And I do not *NECESSARILY* disagree with Non Black gene hypergamy as long as the woman sets herself and child up for success by being partnered with a man who is going to be a part of the child’s life and support and help raise him/her. Any other scenario FOR ME, is just not good, because even if the child is lighter and whiter looking, it still (more than anything) needs that father figure support in their lives
Yeah, yeah, no Black Woman can admit this publicly or even privately without receiving some kind of verbal flogging or pearl clutching or pffer for psychological evaluation – but I GETS IT! Here at the NEST we can talk about these things openly without being judged
But hey, at this point, I say a BW has every right to do whatever SHE personally feels will set her or her children up for success. And frankly, quiet as kept, if certain BW want whiter and lighter kids, I say it’s her own personal choice to do that, and as long as she is a good nurturing mother who made the best choice for a quality husband and father of her child, OH WELL go for it!
Black women have been through so much that I will be the last to tell another BW that she is “WRONG” for feeling this way. Everyone else on this planet can have preferences and certain traits they like in others, but the minute a Black woman does (that doesn’t fall in line with what Black people expect) then it’s a problem? PSSH!
But I have NEVER cared if a BW is colorstruck. That is because why shouldn’t BW be?? With all the crap BW have put up with from their race and culture that has placed any and all things far from Black and closest to White on a pedestal, I personally feel BW have the right to do the same damn thing.
If a BW decides she doesn’t want to have her potential future Black daughters be shunned and treated poorly because she is not light enough, her hair is not straight enough, etc., then I feel she has a right to seek to pro create with men who will give her children that will not suffer with that. And really how can any Black person today chastise a BW for doing this, when the community has done nothing but put down and step on BW who do not look mixed or who are not light?
So yes, here at the NEST, you have my blessing to deep down seek out men who are going to give you children who will not deal with the nonsense colorism that you or other BW have had to deal with.
Your secret is safe with me.
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ReplyDeleteA 1 star Amazon review of Kola Boof lying book Diary of a Lost Girl:
ReplyDeleteFalse at its core
By Philemonon October 13, 2007
The most essential element of the Kola Boof story is her claim to have been Osama Bin Laden's mistress. Despite relentless self-promotion, her first three books garnered little notice. It was her 2006 autobiography, with its bizarre portrayal of Bin Laden as a sexual predator who digs the B-52s and lusts for Whitney Houston, that propelled Kola Boof's name into the news and onto tens of thousands of websites. The less-than-discriminating decision last year by editors at Harper's magazine to run excerpts from "Diary of a Lost Girl" triggered a spasm of news coverage in the United States and Europe. Media interest in Boof has all but died out now, but without Osama, she never would have had the ride that peaked with cable-news interviews on Fox and MSNBC.
No one, of course, has been able to interview Bin Ladin to confirm Boof's intimate portrait, and her account of the rest of her life before she launched her Internet career in 2002 is similarly devoid of factual claims that can be verified. In one telling area, however -- the alleged Bin Ladin interlude -- "Diary" is actually quite explicit about real names, places, and dates. That particular information, it turns out, is surprisingly easy to check...and debunk.
Boof sets her months-long encounter with Bin Ladin at La Maison Arabe, a very real luxury hotel in Marrakesh. Boof relates how he installed her at the hotel and lived there with her off and on for months. She names the proprietors, Fabrizio Ruspoli and Philippe Cluzel, as "wonderful, friendly people." When her relationship with Bin Ladin was publicized a year after 9-11, Boof writes, Ruspoli saved her from being stripped of her American citizenship by assuring government officials that Bin Ladin had held her against her will. While she was at La Maison Arabe, Boof writes, the managers would tell other guests she was an American celebrity, and so she would overhear her fellow lodgers mistaking her for Whoopi Goldberg, or alternatively, Naomi Campbell. Her stay at La Maison Arabe ended, she says, when Bin Ladin abruptly kicked her out of their suite in June of 1996.
Those who are intrigued by these specifics might, quite naturally, google La Maison Arabe. And at the hotel's website they would find, on a page dedicated to reviews by the international travel press, that La Maison Arabe did not welcome its first guest until January of 1998.
For those still having trouble deciding what to make of the Kola Boof story, this is a highly relevant point: she states unequivocably in her "autobiography" that Bin Ladin checked her in to La Maison Arabe almost two years before there was any hotel to check in to.
It's not a question of a true story and a misremembered year, either. In early 1998, Bin Ladin was hiding out in Afghanistan and issuing his fatwa against America. At the same time, Boof writes, she was traveling the world as a spy for Sudanese anti-government rebels.
Osama is a double-edged sword for Boof. She succeeded in getting noticed by building her public persona around him, but as simple inquiry reveals, that also makes her story a transparently phony one.