Here's two videos below where a woman in a fat suit & a guy in a fat suit go out on dates they set up online. The difference being is-
The guy used his charms & wit to pull all but one brawd, he relied on his mouthpiece knowing he likely couldn't rely on looks. He steered the conversation away from his fat body, he did make obvious jokes, but he had skill & it didn't hurt that they cooperated.
Meanwhile shawty didn't even use shit, this is the difference between using a weakness or flaw as strength vs what she did. Most women are like her, they rely on their looks to carry them, and she tried to pull the "love what's on the inside" Shit, She didn't use her mouthpiece, she didn't use no charm, no wit, she didn't even steer the convo from her body, her strength is normally her looks, so she didn't have anything else to rely on and she only kept one guy.