Chivalry & Old Fashion Women

Old fashion women lived with their parents & they were raised to be useful around the house. 

Women who claim men should be chivalrous because they are old fashion aren't really old fashion, nor do they believe in old fashion views.  

Old fashion women couldn't work, so their parents took care of them & if you had an interest in their daughter, you had to meet the parents first. They had to be comfortable with who wanted to date their daughter. You met the parents BEFORE going out on a date, there were no dates before the parents thought you were ok to go out with their daughter. & since the men were around the age of their daughter, they normally gave the boy interested in going out with their daughter, money to take her out since he was either low on money & or also didn't work or he was young himself like their daughter. (I have to give credit to Tariq since he pointed that out & it made sense considering women couldn't work).

Old fashion women made themselves useful. Back in the day you opened doors for them, they came through to your spot bring you something, cooked, cleaned. They did shit for you. Bitches today talk about chivalry, wanting chivalry to come back & they act as if it was just men opening doors for them & they gracefully walked through whether or not they said thank you. Like it was a man's job in life to be opening doors for bitches. They sat outside on the porch eating a pie or talking. That's how they got to know each other better & since parents only allowed their daughter to date who they approved of, it was easy for 1 girl & 1 guy to get to know each other fast. There was no 10-100 different contacts.

Old fashion women didn't have kids before marriage, old fashion women didn't have their own car, job & a place to stay. You are not an old fashion woman, you're a modern day woman & chivalry goes out the window in the modern day since you can work, you can drive & you can have your own money. There is no such thing as an old fashion woman in the modern day. The moment you got a job you really aren't old fashion. 

& a lot of old fashion shit goes out the window with black women because black women were working with black men back in the day, they had different kind of jobs but still were working too. All that Trickin shit, taking care of a woman was a white man thing.

Black folk, women would clean houses & dudes would work with their hands. If a woman wasn't working than yeah, it would go into affect of men taking care of a woman. But like I said a lot of times black women were working, they weren't staying at home. So chivalry never existed with black folks in the so-called "black community." 

Fellas, you need to ask yourself, "what am I getting out of this by doing this for you?"

Bitches might go; "it's thoughtful & selfless & this & that" 

Well if it you think it's
selfless, then why don't be you selfless an go open the door for me.

"Cause you're a man"

Bitch! That's a weak argument, my purpose in life isn't to be opening doors for you.

& if a brawd say my purpose is to be opening doors, well shit, if it is my life purpose to be opening doors for you then your life purpose is to clean my muthafuckin home, clean the floor, wash the dishes, cook the food. Go make me a gotdamn Sammich. -SSM 12/10/13

Here's part 2 

Chivalry & Old Fashion Women; pt 2 [12/11/13]